I previously had been referring to the baby as "the baby" in an effort to guard my heart. But in prayer this morning, I really felt like this is the baby the Lord has for us and this is going to happen. Then I got online and got the following information from my social worker. So I will now be referring to her as our baby and Hannah. :)
I just found out that Hannah's birthmother and her sisters came in already to meet her and the visit went well. Her mother acknowledged this was very hard, but reminded the social worker again of her reasons for choosing adoption. The girls are working on a scrap book for Hannah. My social worker said it sounds like the placement will take place. They are requesting to visit with her three times the first year and once a year after that (as long as it's beneficial for everyone involved). We are totally fine with that. I'll let you know once we've set up our time for Friday.
I am so excited for you! :-) I ca not wait to see pictures! :-)
ReplyDeleteWow, Nikki...I've been following this and quietly praying with so many mixed emotions. As happy as I am for you, my heart has been heavy for this family. I can't imagine how hard it is for this mother and these sisters to give up a member of their family. I'm sure it has been a gutwrenching decision on so many levels. I don't know their situation, but I'm glad this birth mother chose you guys, it does sound like a good "fit" between you and them, if that makes any sense. And I'm glad to know that even though these sisters won't be able to grow up in the same household, that they will still be able to "know" one another because of your willingness to be open with this adoption. Praying for Lord's best for everyone involved!
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